I'm really fucking exhausted
I feel like everyone around me is letting me down
They just keep taking, and I'm feeling so incredibly drained
Idk what is rude or what is standing up for myself anymore
I need a real break to myself before I really let this get to me
I thought I was in control, but in the span of 2 weeks I feel like I'm starting to spiral.
I didn't think anything was wrong, but it obviously is.
My skin is breaking out,
My throat looks swollen,
I've definitely gained physical weight to match this emotional baggage.
WHAT IS HAPPENING
I thought the catfishing incident didn't bother me, but my body is telling me otherwise.
I'm actually really upset with how subliminally this came about.
And maybe it's the timing with the stress of my projects and mama being gone so the food in our house hasn't been the most nutrient.
I don't know
I just don't know
became Jenn Im's assistant in the span of 3 days
about damn time something like this happened
And as quickly as it all came,
Blame her tendancy to put significance on the minute
Because hard feels familiar
And easy, skeptical
A self-fulfilling prophecy.
Tries to catch herself before these papercuts get deeper
It's a sting
A tiny mistep
Don't make it more than it ever was
Don't let the hurt be disproportionate to the joy
Don't let anything not be worth it
Hell it feels like they've already used you.
Wanting to be jaded,
But knowing that would only give them the satisfaction
If she can't be content
Then no one can bitch
I'm lying in bed. It's 6:30 AM. I just send a voice recording to Jack. And I'm happy.
I think my 22nd has taught me to stop focusing on the distant future and to just fully absorb the now before it becomes the distant past. I'm still a dreamer, but I'm one year less naive than 22, and I think, hope, know I'm better for it.
Things that make me smile:
listening to Lie to Me (Acoustic) by 5SOS
I think I'm falling again, but this time it feels so real, and I'm terrified, because what if it isn't.
I know I'm not what you need right now.
I know you need to learn that all you need is yourself.
I know that I need to give you space to figure that out.
And I hope that though you'll only need you, you'll choose me.
But if anything happened right now, it would be too soon.
You're confused, vulnerable, and I'm supposed to be strong and free. But I feel like I'm getting sucked into something meant to be, and I'm going to be ruined if this one isn't real.
All I can do is wait for you. And I don't know how long it will take. I don't know how long I can take. I don't know if this is me reading too much into things again, but you're feeding me everything I've always wanted and it just feels right.
I'm not sure what happens next or if this is all there is, but please, if it isn't true, let me down easy, lie to me.
I'm tired of chasing.
I'm tired of running.
I just want to find my anchor already.
Be careful with me Jared, and I promise I'll be careful with you.
Second time getting rejected shooting my shot, but it doesn't feel as bad as last time. I guess I'm doing better, but damn I can't wait until this relationship thing finally clicks. One day. I'm just going to have to be patient.
Why is too good to be true always so fucking terrifying? I don't want disappointment or hurt again, but here I go...
I think about you a damn lot, more than I should.
It's second nature, something I do when I'm bored.
Not really fireworks anymore, but a warmth that won't go away.
Sometimes it still feels meant-to-be, but mostly I can't ignore that it's stupid and not mutual.
I used to write unsent poems and notes to you hoping that the universe would pick up on my not-so-subtle hints.
But to be honest with myself, I think the universe was reciprocating warning signs through you.
I came across a quote recently,
"when you're wearing rose-colored glasses, red flags just look like flags"
And boy, I have to admit, those flags looked like destiny, my whole life, our whole life, at my fingertips. I couldn't, didn't want to understand, why you saw nothing where I saw everything.
I've been through hell and back, and you have no idea. You recently asked me how I'm doing, a formality at a gathering, and all I could say was "better" because it's the truth. I don't know if you intentionally ignored it, or if your humility has prevented you from seeing the huge role you've played in my hurt. Is there a difference at this point?
However, there is a difference between a love note and a self-love note.
I'm not counting on the idea of us anymore. I think, I hope, I'm starting to let the boil simmer.
You'll always be the boy that broke my heart, obliterated it 'til I didn't want it anymore. It was worse than when I saw Heather Kwon dancing with Collin Pham at winter formal. It was worse than when I rejected Vincent Feng but still wanted him close. Nothing cut more permanently than the last few times I saw you smile and knew that I'd seldom be the reason why.
I'm still a foolish romantic at heart, but it isn't despite of you, it's in validation of you. Love used to be a myth, but it's so damn real.
Before you, I always joked that I wanted something tragic, worth fighting for. Guess I've always lived for dramatics. But you taught me that there's nothing beautiful about someone who doesn't love you back. Our whole friendship was me trying to convince you that we were almost and that I could be more, while you were trying to make me understand that there wasn't more and that I was enough. But to blatantly quote Ariana Grande, "almost is never enough" so our friendship will never be enough for me, and I'll always be too much for you.
It's sad. Life is sad. But also, as you cringed hearing, "life is beautiful," and I'll be damned if I let Mr. de Limur be my peak. There was a before you, and there will be an after you.
You still mean a lot to me, and I hope one day, if we ever genuinely catch up, I can realize that a lot of this went over your head to spare me the involuntary embarrassment. Just for personal pretension, I'm also genuinely curious if you considered us close friends or just friends. I think you can guess where you stood on my end.
I'm here if you need me, but I'm letting go of the idea of needing you. And it's something I'm finally ok with.
"I'm afraid so. You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are."