Today, I overheard a guy at work make a joke:
"Tiffany can't have more than 3 Asians in her cubicle."
Immediately, my two other Asian coworkers mentioned it was racist and that he wouldn't say that about white people but they kind of laughed it off. His defense was "It's Tiffany's rule, not mine!" Which made it even worse that he was deflecting blame.
I didn't see who he was, which is probably best since I'd feel really weird around him from this point on. It kind of bothers me you know?
"I'm afraid so. You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are."